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r/Actuallylesbian

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to r/Actuallylesbian by poopapoopypants
3 weeks ago
Stop attacking gold star lesbians
Discussion
to r/Actuallylesbian by SolutionDelicious299
2 months ago
Trying to find my mojo
Advice
to r/Actuallylesbian by w0rthlessgirl
6 months ago
has anyone come across a touch-me-not femme?
Discussion
to r/Actuallylesbian by w0rthlessgirl
7 months ago
has the internet poisoned my brain or is 19 and 21 a weird age gap?
Discussion
to r/Actuallylesbian by w0rthlessgirl
7 months ago
are you femme or feminine?
Discussion
to r/Actuallylesbian by w0rthlessgirl
7 months ago
for those of you who don't want children, how has it affected your dating experience?
Discussion
to r/Actuallylesbian by Busy_Push3487
9 months ago
Well I messed up really good and now I’m going to rant about it
Advice
to r/Actuallylesbian by NoResponse4120
1 month ago
How do you converse with people?
Discussion
to r/Actuallylesbian by Busy_Push3487
9 months ago
Getting ready to be put on bed rest for 6 weeks. Entertainment suggests?
Media/Culture
to r/Actuallylesbian by Busy_Push3487
9 months ago
What’s with lesbians and this attachment style thing?
Advice
to r/Actuallylesbian by Busy_Push3487
9 months ago
What are things like in Southeastern US?
Advice
to r/Actuallylesbian by BeautifulTrash-2306
10 months ago
Does dressing or looking more "queer" help you get more women?
Discussion
to r/Actuallylesbian by kayy_21
9 months ago
Any other lesbians in the medical/dental fields?
to r/Actuallylesbian by Misswhatzittoya420
10 months ago
I had to call the police on my now ex gf.
Support
to r/Actuallylesbian by TarberryPie
9 months ago
Happy Thanksgiving! 🦃 What are y’all thankful for?
Discussion
to r/Actuallylesbian by BatwomanFanScripts
11 months ago
Any Lesbians 20-30 years from Sydney, Australia?
Discussion
in Sydney, Aus
to r/Actuallylesbian by hornythrowawayheh
7 months ago
Can't get her out of my mind
Discussion
to r/Actuallylesbian by NoResponse4120
1 month ago
Any Pakistani/Indian queer women in North America on here who want to chat? 🙃
Serious
in To, India
to r/Actuallylesbian by Misswhatzittoya420
10 months ago
My Girlfriend says I put no effort into our relationship
Relationships/Family
to r/Actuallylesbian by AccomplishedGround8
2 months ago
Matchmaker
Relationships/Family
to r/Actuallylesbian by thetiredcowboy
1 year ago
Tips on meeting other lesbians at Pride?
Advice
to r/Actuallylesbian by woolfgirl18
1 year ago
What are some alternatives to dating apps to meet women, for a young-ish lesbian? (22)
Advice
to r/Actuallylesbian by bewbs010
1 year ago
Lesbian Movie, Show, and Book Masterdoc
Media/Culture
to r/Actuallylesbian by octopusvenom
1 year ago
Books!
Discussion
to r/Actuallylesbian by hime309
1 year ago
Lesbians and Poly
Discussion