Met a girl for the first time after r speaking for some time on IG. There wasn’t much chemistry or flow online, but I was still open to meeting her in person so we did. I noticed she spoke 75% of the time, and when she would allow me space to talk or ask me something, she’d interrupt me in the middle. I met a school friend after a decade and noticed the same thing with them. At the end of the night, this friend told me “you are mysterious and at the end of 3 hours I know nothing about you.” This came after they interrupted my story to talk about themselves for the twelfth time.

Is this how most people are? Do folks allow you equal space to talk? Do conversations always flow for you?

I have also noticed I am a very question-answer person in the beginning stages of talking, I feel like that’s how I find my flow with a certain person if there’s ever a chance of any mind of chemistry (dating/ friendship both). What’s your style?