So I (23F) and potential BF (26M), have been talking for almost 2-3 months. He had asked me out several times but l insisted on waiting to get to know him better. Eventually I agreed and yesterday we were playing a question game. We had talked about our pasts before and he told me that he had no gf's before. But yesterday I found he had slept with over 30 girls. I kind of feel hurt since he never mentioned that before. He said it wasn't a big deal. Another important key detail is that we belong to the desi community, so relationships, sex before marriage is all taboo. Since it's 2024, i wasn't expecting him to not have dated or done anything but 30 is crazy. Most of those girls were Prostitutes or his friends girlfriends (that were in open relationships). I have never dated before or even slept with anyone. He has introduced me to his family and asked me to even marry him next year. I feel like guys in my community do this a lot they fuck around and then go marry an innocent girl. I know for a fact that if I even had one body he would have a hard time accepting me. I really like him but imagining him with so many girls makes me so insecure. What should I do : (. Also he is sometimes really controlling, he is from India, and has only been in the USA for about a few years. I was born here, so we clash a lot. I value my freedom and like to make decisions for myself. He likes to control my environment and surroundings and says he is being protective but I just think he is controlling and insecure. He doesn’t like me being friends with other guys, hate when I get attention or even compliment another male infront of him. He also stalks my location and my friends to make sure I am not out partying or hanging out with other guys. He checks my social media and phone. Idk my parents never even did that. Not once in my life has my mom or dad checked my phone. Idk his friends keep validating him saying that he loves me and that his past doesn’t matter. He told me the truth, most guys wouldn’t do that, etc. They also think his controlling behavior is cute and protective. Idk it doesn’t seem normal to me but then again it’s my first relationship. I didn’t even want to date but dude love bombed me for months, and now I am stuck cause I got emotionally attached.