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r/ABCDesis

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ABCDesis (Abroad-Born Confused Desis) is a place for members of the South Asian diaspora who were raised outside of South Asia to share their experiences and be a part of the collective global Desi diaspora community.

Notice: This subreddit is not actively monitored, so the posts here are only a small subset of what exists on reddit.

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NEWS DATING / RELATIONSHIPS DISCUSSION ARTS / ENTERTAINMENT Konkani + Guju | Chi-town raised, LA livin' ADVICE SATIRE CELEBRATION FAMILY / PARENTS COMMUNITY EDUCATION / CAREER TRAVEL VENT RELATIONSHIPS (Not Advice) German Born Not Too Confused Desi BEAUTY/FASHION Mallu American DISCUSSION TRIGGER HEALTH/NUTRITION Nepali American Indian American MENTAL HEALTH Australian Indian British Pakistani Canadian Indian Australia - United States - India FOOD half Indian half European British Bangladeshi view more
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3 weeks ago
Don’t worry you will find your Prince Charming
COMMUNITY
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4 weeks ago
Embracing culture
COMMUNITY
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4 weeks ago
WhatsApp wishes
COMMUNITY
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4 weeks ago
What’s your go to Indian Dish?
COMMUNITY
in To, India
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1 month ago
Whose your current favorite Indian musician right now?
DISCUSSION
in India
to r/ABCDesis by cheeseheadtexan
1 month ago
Classic Desi problem
COMMUNITY
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6 days ago
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An Indian soldier gestures as his ship arrives in Singapore (Dec 1, 1941)
HISTORY
in India
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1 month ago
Do darker desis face more racism?
DISCUSSION
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1 week ago
Merry Diwali-ween everyone.
CELEBRATION
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3 weeks ago
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Diwali commemorates the triumph of light over darkness. Celebrate at the Empire State Plaza with New York State’s Inaugural Diwali Festival of Light this Saturday, October 19 from 3-9pm. More info & a link in the comments
CELEBRATION
in New York City
to r/ABCDesis by AcanthopterygiiOne61
6 months ago
Lack of life coaching for South Asians...Would you get it if given the option?
DISCUSSION
to r/ABCDesis by Durian_Ill
6 months ago
I’m an aspiring storywriter with a hopefully interesting plot on my hands. Thoughts?
DISCUSSION
to r/ABCDesis by PM_ME_VOGELBACH_PICS
6 months ago
What separates you from other desi people?
DISCUSSION
to r/ABCDesis by Frequent-Painting961
6 months ago
How much of your original language do you understand?
DISCUSSION
to r/ABCDesis by SillyCranberry99
6 months ago
Do any girls on here get random DM’s from guys from this sub lol?
DISCUSSION
to r/ABCDesis by Cuddlyaxe
6 months ago
Gendered racism is real. That doesn't mean you have to compare it
TRIGGER
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6 months ago
What are your jobs
COMMUNITY
to r/ABCDesis by robin7907
6 months ago
What’s the problem with Telugu community in the US?
COMMUNITY
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6 months ago
Aging Parents when you don't get along
FAMILY / PARENTS
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6 months ago
Gym bros and gym gals of rABCDesis, what was/is the most difficult part of your fitness journey?
to r/ABCDesis by hakuna_matatah
6 months ago
Dating/Marriage question: How do you feel about an age gap where the woman is older than the man (by like 3-5 years)? Would you guys personally go through with it since I know traditionally men are older than women in relationships.
DISCUSSION
to r/ABCDesis by Cuddlyaxe
6 months ago
I have seen ABD Dogs and NRI Cats but not the other way around why? ABD Dogs do they despise FOB Cats ?
DISCUSSION
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6 months ago
Body count…does this actually matter to you?
DISCUSSION
to r/ABCDesis by frizzzyhairgirl
6 months ago
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Always struggled with crazy frizzy hair, any indian remedies you guys guys know
DISCUSSION
in India
to r/ABCDesis by Alicezara2
6 months ago
Fob bf has a body count of 30+ and I am a virgin
DISCUSSION