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As a wife or female partner, are you fine if your bf/partner or husband likes pictures of other women?
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Hey everyone,

I'm married and primarily follow friends on Instagram. However, I occasionally come across profiles of women I find interesting, mainly due to their shared interests or content they post. While I don't know them personally, I appreciate their intellect and the creative content they share (art, quotes, photos of themselves, etc. - nothing provocative).

I often feel tempted to "like" their posts to show my appreciation for the beauty and intelligence they express. However, I hesitate, worried it might appear creepy to my wife.

Is it generally okay to like online content from someone you don't know personally? I'm curious about others' perspectives and how to navigate this situation respectfully.

tl;dr :

As a wife or female partner, are you fine if your bf/partner or husband likes pictures of other women?As for me, I don't mind if my wife likes pictures of other men.Everyone wants a bit of pride and I understand that.

Update:
Turns out I was worried for no reason. She does like pictures of men from time to time as well and has no issue if I am to do this. It's just that I am new to IG(logged in this year).
We've often commented on the attractiveness of men and women we encounter on the street or see in movies, but I think I felt bad about IG because it does not show who you liked(it is not public).

Thank you mitron!

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You need to ask your wife this. Better yet, do you like her looking at men and liking the pics?

That'd answer your own question.

My boyfriend knows I'm a stripper but our boundary is NO SEX with a customer. I work at a strip club not brothel. He's fine with me dancing seductively and nude on stage for money, flirting with other men, giving other men lapdances and touching other men except for private parts (that'd be considered sexual contact and hence illegal).

There are other strippers who have husbands and children. Their husbands know exactly what their wives do.

At the end, no matter what, i drain my customers wallet and drain only my boyfriends testicles. I'm with my boyfriend, no one else.

Would your wife suspect that you'd go further than just looking or feel inadequate? Are you giving her attention and making her feel like a goddess or the sexiest woman alive. Are you regularly giving her looks, flirting and letting her know that you value, appreciate, love and lust not just her body but as a person and love everything about her?

If you cannot confidently answer YES to the above questions, then stop looking at other girls and focus on your wife and do it regularly. Then you can occasionally look.

If my boyfriend was checking another woman, I don't wanna hear about it and don't want any less attention from him.

Some customers who visit are married men who do it discreetly. They look, throw money on stage, and then go home and give their wives incredible sex.

I've seen wives come into the strip club and drag their husbands out. It's funny.

Again, this is something you need to work with your own partner.

Wives will feel that you're wandering because they are not attractive enough for you. And feel that the marriage is affected. That's why you either 1, respect your partner and don't do it or 2. Look but leave no evidence but make sure you don't leave out your partner.

Don't like pics like an idiot. Just masterbate and move on. Leave no evidence.

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Btw I do not want random men DMing me on my instagram. A girl who happens to be online isn't asking for anything and you are not entitled to anything from her.

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Btw I do not want random men DMing me on my instagram. A girl who happens to be online isn't asking for anything and you are not entitled to anything from her.

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Better not or I'll come over and spank you.

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Right. Many actually are aware of that. Does the other person want communication? Thats the real question. Just cuz you want to talk doesnt mean tgr person does. I highly doubt girls on Instagram want that. My suggestion is Onlyfans or a camgirl and paying her.

Don't assume every girl online is available and willing to take their valuable time to talk to a horny stranger. Cheap horny men are the worst. You'd get blocked.

If you want gratification beyond looking at pics, pay up or gtfo! End of story.

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