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hello all,
came to this community to seek help. as reference my parents are super religious (muslim), traditional, and conservative. growing up with strict parents i wasnt allowed to have any friends, leave home to hang out etc and (long story short) i was away for sometime away from home with family, i left my room door locked, and my mom broke in and found my super revealing, provocative clothing (mini skirts, lingerie sets) and took photos of them in her phone. not really sure where to go from here seeing that i have had a strained relationship with my parents for the past 15 years and the advice of opening up to them isnt really an option- at least not for now... also given the fact on how religious they are and those sorts of clothing are forbidden. im just looking for any advice i guess on as to what good excuse i can give for if/when she asks me as to why i have those sort of clothing to begin with.
on another side note, i understand the issue of this problem is something much larger that i have to yet work on, in terms of building a better relationship with my parents, and the fact that i am an adult and technically i should be allowed to wear what i want but i just want to emphasize on the fact that i have super strict asian parents that are really religious just to put things into context
thank you all for reading this anyways, hoping that for anyone reading this they can at least understand where im coming from since im just super stressed atm and would just appreciate any solid advice on a good excuse i can have for when the time arises thank youuu
The only thing I can say is that you cannot change them.
Have you considered moving out? Is that an option?
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