Hi there. Wondering if any women find things that help them get in the mood or commit to sexual experiences with their partner? I’ve read a lot and am aware that often in LTRs, women’s libido decreases while men’s remain the same. Of course it’s a large generalization, but I’ve struggled with it for a few years (been together 6.5). I’m very in love with my partner (engaged) and find him physically attractive, so it’s more of a initiation and horniness issue for me, and I’ve become more into sensual sexual experiences the past few years. Used to have a crazy high sex drive in young 20s but now at 30 very low. We do generally have sex around once a week but I would love to find ways to crave it. We find exploring consensual nonmonogamy can really help keep things exciting (I identify as bisexual and my partner is a male). I should add that I do not get off from sexual experiences aside from masturbation so that unfortunately adds another layer of difficulty. Regardless I am curious what women find helps them if they’ve struggled with this as well!