Perhaps a better question to ask, is do your kids tend to like one race over another?

I am WM, wife is AW - American Born Chinese. I never was particularly interested in Asian's, she was my first Asian gf, and while she did date other white men, her last bf before me was Asian. We became friends, and then it developed into something more, no fetish. (although she does love my long eyelashes, and the fact that my kids got them.)

My children, a boy and a girl, are still pretty young. They have not started dating yet, so not sure how this is going to pan out. I will say they do tend to befriend minorities, and definitely other Asians.

I will also say, my wife would prefer them both to date Chinese, but due to low Asian density in our area, that is unlikely until college. Personally, I don't care who they date, as long as they treat them well, they are well educated, and have goals.