I have a couple of questions but first some context. Legally by a piece of paper I am still married but we have been separated for over 4 years. The reason why we are still married is because she needed my insurance coverage for some medical reasons. We are still cordial with each other but I want to be able to be with other people. I haven't seen anyone since the separation because I feel like I'm cheating because of that piece of paper. I'm new to the Craft and my questions are:

1. Are there any spellcasting, candle magic or anything else that I can do to help get the ball rolling to end the ties of our relationship but in a positive way so that I can move on with my life guilt free. And...

2. Would this be against her will. I don't want to do anything that would be against her will.

Thank you for any assistance.