Apologies if this question isn't directly related to swinging but I don't really know of a better place to ask. Hopefully it doesn't get taken down.

Is there a sex-positive lifestyle scene here? Not just swinging but like a community of open-minded people into casual sex and non-monogamy.

I feel like I'm kind of isolated here and it's only in the big cities where that sort of thing seems to exist. I'd love to move to Toronto or Montreal but it's hard to pack up your entire life and move. For me, it's just not in the cards right now. I really want to be part of a community like that. I feel like Windsor is the sort of town people go to to start a family and get a dead-end job in the auto industry. People seem to be a lot more conservative here and I don't really fit in.

I've had a lot of problems in life and I kind of missed out on the college experience. I've always been a really sexual person but I was never able to show it. I'd like to start living and enjoying my life for once.

I'm not into swinging per se but I'm not necessarily opposed to it either. As a single man I don't think I'd be welcome in that crowd. I've always been very curious about polyamory/enm/open relationships but never really told anyone for fear of being judged. Right now though, I'd mostly like to just find a few girls to play and explore with but I don't really know how to seek it out. I'm not a thirsty weirdo just looking to get my dick wet. I do actually want to get to know the person first. Honestly, my sexual proclivities are more centered around pleasing women than myself anyway.

I totally struck out with dating apps when I was looking for a relationship but I'll probably get into it again. Mostly, I was just hoping to find some like minded people in the area to talk to about it and maybe make some friends.

Is that a thing in Windsor? Or should I be packing up and leaving?

BTW, I'm a straight 38M.