Our wedding is coming up on June 10th and I am trying to find a fragrance/scent that will be smelled for the first time at our wedding, and then be remembered fondly as well as used for a lifetime. Last night she went through my aftershave collection and we have some notes as to what she imagines, and what she liked.

• Scent she imagines: Wisteria (honey, lavender, clean laundry)
• Liked Floral Fougere from Soap Commander (but imagines the scent to be sweeter)
• Night Music from B&M was well received but the vanilla came on stronger than she imagines wanting (any scent ID recommendation is greatly appreciated u/BostonPhotoTourist)
• I had thought that an ADP Colonia type scent would hit the spot, but she wasn't wild about the forward citrus

What ya got fine people of reddit?

EDIT: To set the scene, we will be in the courtyard of a French Quarter, New Orleans restaurant that has a 100 year old Wisteria in the corner (but it won't be blooming so late in the spring / early summer).