So, to start at the beginning: 13.7 billion years ago at the dawn of the universe….wait, wait, wait…too far back. Maybe I should kick things off with a little about me and why I’m saying hello!

When it comes to the basics I’m 32 (although sometimes my life situation and personality feels more like 19-21 lol), about 6’ tall, medium weight, located in NC. I’m currently in school for IT, and with any luck only moderately screwing it up! There’s a ton to my hobbies and interests, and gaming and anime are a way of life for me! I’m always reading manga, watching some anime, or playing a game whenever I have the proper chance. I’m really into gaming and retro culture, and have a huge collection of gear and games both old and new. I love being able to fix old gear and equipment and get to reliably experience stuff the way it was originally intended.

So, in other words, I’m total geek most of the time, and don’t care who knows it! My personality is often silly and kind of nerdy, and I tend to invest myself into the people and things I care about. I enjoy getting to be loving and affectionate in relationships too, and being able to appreciate a partner far beyond just saying good morning and good night like some folks. Yet somehow I tend to skew rather dominant in the bedroom and power dynamics lol. I also do NOT smoke or do any drugs, indulge in hard drinking, or live the drunken party lifestyle and am firm on that too.

I’m looking for someone I can be in-depth with and begin to forge a lifelong bond together. Romantically, I’m someone who needs a sense of friendship and mutual belonging for things to work well long term. So, sharing a fondness for building camaraderie and warmth that fosters good communication and connection means a lot to me. Being able to relate and share things unilaterally with one another leads to real trust, security and respect. Given that a key component of what I’m looking for involves exploring certain power dynamics in a relationship the importance of communication and that mutual sense of trust and respect is even greater.

I want a real friendship and partnership as much as I want a submissive, and need someone I can feel just as connected while chilling out and watching some anime or gaming as much as the rest of things. I like fun and unique people, and peculiar or interesting personalities are always welcome if good-natured and loving. Physically I tend to prefer girls on the curvier or larger side. But I’m open to all comers, big or small, so long as you’re open minded and honest about who you are and what you want. I’m rather kink friendly and welcoming of new experiences, within reason. So, if this sounds like something you’d want to explore then why not send me a message to learn more?