I feel like I go through phases of feeling super dominant and masculine when I get horny, to the complete opposite end of the spectrum.

When me and my gf have sex I feel super in control and dominant and I love it. I love making her submit and take me (she is almost completely the submissive type).

On the other hand, all it takes is the sight of BBC or any good looking big cock to flick a switch in my head and remove every single piece of dominant from my brain, making me immediately want to submit to it and do anything I'm asked of by the man that cock belongs to. Even chatting to guys on here I feel immediately submissive when it gets sexual. And even writing this post, it's this part which is making me hard just thinking about it...

I constantly wonder if there's any hope for guys like me or if I'm already on an unstoppable course to become a completely submissive and inferior whiteboy.