My ex-husband and I have been divorced for over 15 years communicating with him it's just never an option! He came to work on my daughter's car 2 weeks ago and I thought it would be a good time to talk about him participating and getting My son off to college this year and my daughter back into an online high school program so she can finish and graduate.

I approached him at the end of the day after I got pizza and I also chipped in on helping with the car parts that were needed, my daughter proposed to him that Hey I need you and mom to talk together about school, He immediately chimed back well let's talk about all of the knives you've stuck in my back over the years, I said that's not what we're here for and it very quickly escalated to a full on in your face fight, He was in my face Yelling and spitting on me so I did the most inappropriate thing and I just checked him, I have years of pent-up anger from him absolutely never helping with the children ever, and he really doesn't want to see them succeed so he doesn't want to see them succeed so he does anything he can to make sure that doesn't happen.

My son was pushing me back away from him and my daughter was screaming and she decided to claw her chest,She also cocked her arm and elbow up to the sky like she was going to actually hit me.

Immediately I was completely in shock at what she had just done to herself and her father conveniently got in his truck and left, like you always did! He would cause the confusion and then leave like a smoke bomb thrown into a building.

As if that wasn't enough now she's telling me that she hates me that I'm disrespectful to her which I've never been I literally walk on eggshells and I treat her as she's a princess I've never told her no she's never not had anything she's ever wanted period.. I gather from the phone calls I've received that she's been telling her friends and their parents that I did this to her chest, that I Actually hit her or hurt her in some way. Never ever Hit my children in any way I don't ground them I don't reprimand them I've always tried to reason with them and work through anything. And that has always worked really well when it comes to my son,It doesn't work very well when it comes to my daughter because she curses at me she disrespects me right to my face in front of friend's family it doesn't matter. No my dad recently died and I don't know if that's causing this change in her, I don't know what to do, the other night she laughed and she has not come back sense and she doesn't feel that she needs to contact me and I've reached out to a few of her friends and their parents and they don't wanna respond to me either because according to them they think that I'm beating my kid.

All of my personal friends have told me to kick her out, to pack her stuff because all of them know what kind of mother I am and how I lay my life on the line for my children and I've never touched them in a non loving manner ever. I barely ever even raised my voice to them.