I’ve been together with my girlfriend now for 3 years and I wouldn’t trade it for anything. I’ve been so happy with her and I genuinely find a future with her.

I was out on a work trip for a week and met this wonderful lady at the event. We spent some time together between our crew and theirs and had a couple nights out of drinking. Some sexual innuendos came from her to me, such as “I’d love to cuddle with you” and “if you roofied me I wouldn’t mind”.

I don’t know why but for some reason this turned me onto her but I was feeling uneasy about the situation too. On the last night her, my coworker, and I were in her hotel room talking for hours. After we left, she texted me and was asking if I was single. (Obviously hinting to hooking up). Never have I felt more tempted to get up, knock on her door, and spend the night. But I didn’t, I told her about my relationship and she was very happy for me and understood my position.

It is now the next morning and I feel like I am regretting not getting up and going to her room. I don’t know why, I’ve never been in this situation before, no other woman has came onto me like that. I don’t know how to feel now.

Do I tell my girlfriend about my experience? Should I just keep it to myself? What should I do if I see her again?