me and my bf (both 20) have been dating for a little over a year and recently he told me he doesnt know if he can handle long distance. long story short he started acting very distant and would barely text me/text super dry and when i called him out on it he said its because he's been having doubts about our relationship. we only see each other every 3-4 months and we're planning on moving in together when im finished with school so thats at least 2 years, maybe more if we dont have the money. he said he doesn't know if he wants to wait that long. he said he needs time to think about it until he can talk to his therapist (which is tomorrow) and sort out how he feels. i havent talked to him in almost a week, its the longest we've gone without talking since we started dating.

im so terrified he's gonna call me after his therapy tomorrow saying yeah our relationship is over. i knew it was hard for both of us dealing with the distance but this is the first time he said he's considering breaking up with me. and apparently he's been thinking about it for months. im just so confused this is all so sudden. i dont want to lose him. he's planning on coming back to visit in a month and ive been so excited i dont know what im going to do if i can never see him again. i already told him i want to try to fix this since now i know he feels this way maybe we can fix it but all he said was "i just need to talk to my therapist." its been a week and i cant take not knowing anymore i think im losing my mind. i want to talk to him more than anything but i respect his privacy and his mental health so i wont, plus its only one more day. im just so scared and confused hes my best friend i dont want to lose him