I've been in a long distance relationship where my girlfriend is reluctant to come out of her shells and make an effort. We've never met, want to live together, made promises. But there's no future in sight. We're in the limbo state.

But this lack of commitment, dreamy kind of attitude is something I see in every other person around. Nobody wants to go that extra mile, even when you turn the faucet and initiate. They just don't match the energy. Or maybe they need someone/something else and hence no effort.

Especially when it comes to relationships, it's hard to find the one who matches your energy and is willing to grow with you.

Even people in my office, closing in on their 30s, some even 40s are single. They got everything in terms of career but at the end of the day got no one to talk to when they go back home.

Is it tough to navigate hiccups in relationships now because of the lifestyle and choices we make? Is everyone in search of finding that perfect partner losing out on life, on someone with whom they could make mistakes, grow, and make a life.