This post has been de-listed
It is no longer included in search results and normal feeds (front page, hot posts, subreddit posts, etc). It remains visible only via the author's post history.
Okay her 24 f and me 38 m
I met this girl on words with friends 2 and she has a ton of baggage. She finished homeschool when she was 12. Her parents died at 16 in a car accident. She got emancipated at 16 took care of her younger brother. Last year her younger brother 20 years old committed suicide he couldn't handle life anymore.
This girl just got out of a 2 year abusive relationship. 6 months ago her ex raped her and then held her down while his friend raped her.
We got to chatting and honestly, I have never clicked with anyone so fast. It was almost too surreal the chemistry was crazy.
Well about 2 months ago I talked to her and she decided to start therapy. She says I was the first person I told about her being raped and how bad the assault was.... And because of me she decided to go to therapy and I know that is a huge fucking step for a woman and I was so happy for her
She has phone issues (ex drowned her, beat her. ,choked.her when she tried to use the phone). She would not give me her number she said "She has phone issues and she should have told me and wanted to fix her brain first before she jumped into anything. She sleeps with the fucking lights on, she for sure has PTSD and used to cut.
We came up with a compromise and I made an email we use to chat and voice chat (which she says was a great idea, because its hard to keep a relationship going just on text in a game) She says she wants to take things slow she just started therapy 10 days ago.
She has a restraining order out on the 2 guys who assaulted her.. About 14 days ago someone came to her job and either shot guns or fireworks. She ended up getting a police escort home (she works at night). And I stayed up until 5 a.m. texting her until she fell asleep.
Well she was MIA for a few days and last Saturday finally popped up and specifically downloaded the game on her friends phone to tell me that she left her phone on the top of her car and that she would.be getting a new one and would be back Monday. Well I assumed she meant last week. But it is now Monday and she has not popped up.....
And I know how the story sounds... but ive.never clicked with anyone EVER like this in my life. And I never trust people or date on the net. But, I trust her 100%. Her phone is the only access to the internet.she has. Here is our last convo.
"I'm good! I busted my phone and cant get one till.monday Nd cant use the company computer for personal email... my friend just got here with some dinner so.i logged in to the game on her app lol phew"
"Yesterday it was on top of my car with my water bottle I got busta in the car grabbed my water and took off"
"I'm really sorry I need a back up maybe a tablet or something"
Missed you
I'll see if she has time tomorrow to come let me mooch her phone again lol
I'll get them monday lol. (Talking about email)
I hope you have a good night I'm sorry it was short Loves sugar ❤ Night! 💋
Those were all her words, does that sound like someone who is.going to ghost me????? Am I overreacting???? I am so fucking worried. Why would someone say that and ghost me??? Our relationship has.been going fucking great. Please give me advice and tell me im just overreacting. I was thinking about doing a fucking welfare check, but I'm a fucking idiot and can't remember the fucking city. Does that chat sound like she would be ghosting me?????
My bro.and friends think im fucking insane, but I trust this chick 100%. Wtf should I do??? Am I overreacting?
Subreddit
Post Details
- Posted
- 2 years ago
- Reddit URL
- View post on reddit.com
- External URL
- reddit.com/r/wemetonline...