I've been talking to this girl for three and a half months. I'm totally in love. We make calls all the time, text everyday, play games and watch series together, etc. By the time I finally get to meet her in person, we will have been talking for six months. I know that in person that would be plenty of time to ask her. I want to wait just a little more, just so I can ask her when we finally meet, but I don't know if that will be too long.

Some people have told me I can't ask her before we meet, and I wonder if other people here think the same. Maybe I should wait after a few dates in person to do it. Or maybe two more months of too much and I shouldn't be waiting for imaginary deadlines.

I know it's my decision and I should do what feels right, and to me, it feel so right to meet her in two months and ask her right there on our first date, because I feel we are already there in terms of connection. However, I still want to know what some of you think about this.