This situation is a little stupid and mostly my fault for getting so involved but... I (23F) met this guy on reddit (25M) on a certain sub 2 months ago, and ever since we've been sexting almost every day. At the beginning i wasn't even interested in him (bear in mind that to this day he still hasn't shown me his face) but we started talking about other things too and now i have definitely caught some feelings, even tho i wouldn't say i'm in love or anything.

Yesterday we were talking about how i should live my life more, go out and meet people, and i asked him if he'd rather be with someone that is more similar to him or has a similar lifestyle, and he said yes. I felt really hurt at this, a lot more than i should, but i can't help it. We've talked about meeting up (mostly for sex) but i know a relationship is not possible with him. Still, i keep getting hurt when i think about this topic and i just don't know how to deal with these feelings. How can i be more realistic about this situation and stop making it be more than what it is?