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I F(16) am in a relationship with my bf M(19) for almost two months. (legal age of consent in my country is 15 years old).
So we met on snapchat, I was adding random people I was talking to boys my age mostly, we became friends on there in early November of 2021 we weren't talking that much we sent streaks he often commented about how pretty I was and jokingly said things like "oh I think am going to jail for you". At that point I wasn't thinking that anything could happen between us.
We started talking more in December I think and we had started talking every day all day by Christmas. That's when I found out he was living 3 and a half hours away, knowing me I couldnt even imagine what would come next because before I met him and at the beginning of talking to him I thought that for my age even 2 years age gap was enough so 4 years no way and also about long distance relationship I never thought I could handle it.
A week later he asked me to be his gf and he said that he knows it would be hard because distance relationships are hard but he really wants to try with me because he feels a connection he has never felt with anyone before and that he is so deeply in love with me. I didn't gave him an answer right away because I wanted to think about it. He said he understood and he will wait for me as long as it takes and that he will do anything he can to make me happy whatever I decide.
The following week we talked on the phone all day. One day I remember he was at the internet cafe and a friend of his came and he asked him who he was talking to and he said "the girl I was talking about" and his friend said to me "hi (my name)", his friend sat next to him the played games and my bf talked me like he talked to me when no one was there. That continued every time he was at the internet Cafe with his friends. So after a week of him continuing making me smile every day, falling asleep while face time, talking to him on the phone everyday.
I decided to tell him that I was feeling the same way he did and and that I wanted to be his no matter what everyone says. (I always thought about who I wanna be with I didn't wanna be judged but him I had never felt that way ever and it was the first time I really didn't care).
It's hard tho because we have never met in person. And that is because he has been paid from his job. He works there since December. It's something he has to do to get his license so he could work anywhere else. I can't explain why in English it's probably gonna sound wrong but there is a real explanation why they haven't paid him.
The thing is I am so in love. I have never been in love really. It feels strange to say it. Because we have never met in person but I feel in love I really do. And the thing I want the most is to see him. We talk every day all day and we have fun even on the phone. And the longer it goes the harder it gets.
I really want people's opinion about the situation. How weird it sounds to be in love with someone you helave never met? Do you think it could happen? I just wanna know how crazy it sounds.
I will try to answer any questions you may have. I really tried writing everything but I am sure I didn't mention a lot of things. (sorry if you find mistakes English is not my first language).
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