Hopefully this subreddit is nicer then r/long-distance.

Anywho me and my now wife had met on an app called YouNow I highly recommend it because of just how wonderful and welcoming it is to all groups of people.

Prior to us meeting both of us were struggling with life and healing from our pasts and when we met on Oct 23rd 2021 it was an instant connection!!

I moved to her on Nov 14th 2021 and I don't regret it either!

There are plenty of people who shouted her and me down for "moving to fast" and saying our relationship was doomed to fail or that we'd break up in 2 months and regret every moment and so much other hateful shit.

Why do people have to spread hate?

That I don't get and like my wife never will but I want to end with this:

If you are contemplating a decision don't think of others and their reactions think only if yourself because at the end of the day by and large it's your life that's impacted not theirs.

I love you u/arya_stark33!!

3 and half months and still goin strong!!!!!