Hi, me (F27) and my boyfriend (M27) have been in an LDR relationship for four months. I find myself often overthinking whether we’ll actually make it. We haven’t seen each other yet and have no concrete plans of doing so since covid is bound to make it pretty tricky. So we said we’ll figure it out when time comes.

Now, I don’t overthink whether he’s cheating or what. I just overthink a lot, thinking whether we’ll make it, if he’s still into me, or if our relationship is okay.

Recently, our relationship has faced a new challenge as he started taking anti depressants and it’s making communication a lot harder, but I can see that he’s trying and really making an effort.

Right now, I think I just want to read up success stories or get some encouragement that LDRs does work, and just because it’s hard doesn’t mean it won’t work.

I just want to stop overthinking and enjoy this relationship as best as I can.

Your responses will be appreciated. Thanks! 🥺