So i need some advice, I (23M) have been dating my Girlfriend (20F) for about a year now and its been a pretty rough journey, Admittedly a-lot can be traced back to my insecurity in regards to her profession, but it can also be stemmed from the inability for her to understand, that its hard to have a partner in her profession, at least for me it is.

Some reoccurring arguments we've been in has been about how she treats her viewers. In some instances i feel like she treats them better than she treats me (this is a long story but i can create another post if you'd like). I've had issues where she gives her users pet names, calling them baby (this is the problem currently), or daddy or stuff like that. I understand that in her profession typically models resort to this behaviour especially in the beginning in order to gain a following, but typically these types of models also don't have a significant other in the equation. Another issue we currently have is that she actively avoids telling her viewers that she has a boyfriend, ill admit at first, early in the relationship, i wanted her to tell them my username and tell them i was her boyfriend and stuff like that but i did realize that it is inconvenient to have her do so and therefore all i ask is for her, when someone asks if she has a boyfriend, just to tell them that she does, and thats it. Her reasoning for not doing so is because "people are crazy on these platforms, and she prefers to keep her private life separate from her work life". This is a pretty good argument and was the reason why i went from wanting her to tell them my username to just saying yes to the question but its difficult to sit there in support for her, and hearing her call them pet names, or while she treats them better that she treats me when she is connected. There was a point where she would defend cam2cam, i obviously am not ok with her viewing other users cams because typically they are not there just to say hello, they are preforming actions in which i do not want to name, and therefore i have always had a problem with this, she would argue with me why she needs to have it and it was always because people pay for it, even though they might pay for it once every month or so, but the idea that someone will come along and pay for it always bugged me. But finally she decided to remove it and i really appreciated it but we still have arguments over these other things in which i truly believe i shouldn't have to tell her to not give other people pet names, to no treat other people with more priority (though i understand there are instances such as family emergency and things of this nature where she has to).

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I understand that some insecurity is tied to all of this from my end. But is it wrong to expect her not to use pet names when referring to her viewers? Is it wrong to not want to be kept a secret from the viewers? Is it wrong to want to be treated a little bit better that the rest?

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I am sorry if this is all over the place, i am writing this on my break at work so i don't have much time, thank you for taking the time to read my post, and will appreciate any feedback thanks.