So yeah I'll cut the intro quickly, me [19M], him [20M], known each other online for years as friends, just over 3 months ago he confessed, I said yes, since then it's pretty much been perfect, no complaints on that front.

He is, tragically, on the other side of the Atlantic. So we made a plan, I've a bit more spare money than him, so I'm gonna fly over for a couple of weeks in late June, early July. Meet him, his family, all that jazz, they already know of me, so it's not a whole surprise but oh my lordie lou I am terrified of cocking it up. Because like, this relationship is already a mad shot in the dark, only held up by both of us being nuts for each other, the distance putting a lot of pressure on it. If the family hate me, then I'm absolutely terrified that that'll kill it.