I never thought I’d really find real love on Omegle. But somehow I did. Here is some context (warning : it’s long)

When I was a teenager, between 14 and 17, I had a lot of « relationships » from Omegle. I was addicted to this website, I was very lonely, all I wanted was to feel loved. All those « relationships » were really bad experiences. They were abusives, toxic, ... I was manipulated by older guys, ... Fortunately, I did not physically meet any of those people.

Then I met my ex, a friend of a friend. I decided to never go again on Omegle, since my experience with it was so bad. I was in a relationship with him for a year. I was very in love. That was my first real relationship. My friends kept warning me that it was toxic but I didn’t listen. Months later, I realised that they were right. It was very toxic. I needed to break up.

I was in a very dark place, very depressed, even from before this relationship. And I didn’t know how to break up with him. I was scared.

On the 9th of December 2018, when I was in a very depressed mood, I decided to go on Omegle, even though I told myself I wouldn’t go again. I needed to talk to people that wouldn’t judge me.

No one was really interesting, most were just looking for sexchat, or trolling. But then I found someone that was willing to talk, to have a normal conversation with me. Let’s call him A. We had a lot of interests in common. He listened to my struggles with my boyfriend, i listened to his problems. So we started to talk on kik, then Snapchat.

I realized after only 2 days that I was going to fall for him.

I broke up with my boyfriend the following weekend, when I would see him physically. I didn’t want to break up over a text. I didn’t break up with him for A, meeting A just made it necessary to do so as soon as possible. I didn’t want to be shady. It wasn’t easy, I was still attached to my ex. But I knew I had to do this, our relationship was unhealthy.

After the breakup, I felt very relieved. It was at this moment I realised how trapped, controlled I was in this relationship.

I started to talk to A more regularly. We started to flirt. We had calls, for hours. We’d watch movies together on Skype. Only some weeks later, we realised we were in love with each other. The only problem was that he lived in Sweden, and I lived in France. He had booked a flight to see me in June 2019, only 2 weeks after meeting me. He told me about it on Christmas. I was so happy. But I couldn’t consider us as being in a relationship until we would physically meet. I needed it to be real. I couldn’t wait, so I booked a flight to go see him in April.

I remember when I met him. I went out of the train, we were talking on the phone. Then I saw him. I didn’t run like in the movies, jumping in his arms. I was too nervous, too awkward. We hugged a bit and then walked. I was so scared he wouldn’t find me as attractive as on Skype, that he wouldn’t like me. But then he kissed me, and all my worries were gone. I fell in love again.

We had so much fun, he showed me his city, we went to the gym, he brought me to see the sea, ... His family is the sweetest, they instantly accepted me.

It was so hard to go back to my uni in France. I hated this university. My classmate weren’t good people. Most of the teachers were mean.

I quit school and applied for a Swedish university. I was scared of my parents reaction but they were surprisingly very supportive. Even though they were sad of seeing me leave, they wanted my happiness.

During the summer A and I had a lot of fun in France, traveling around. It was amazing.

I moved to Sweden in August 2019, and started studying there. I was so happy. My boyfriend moved to my city last June and we started living together.

We’re so in love. We have so much fun together. He makes me laugh until my stomach hurts. He is so supportive and understanding. He makes me a better person. We help each other when one of us is feeling bad, or is too busy. We both make efforts to change our bad qualities. I’m so lucky to wake up next to him everyday, I keep loving him more and more. I think I found my soulmate.

I was very lucky to find such an amazing person on this shady website. Please be careful when meeting people online, be sure to know them. Do video calls. My past experiences were very bad on Omegle, don’t trust everyone.

Just know it’s possible to find your soulmate online. Don’t limit yourself to people you already know, your soulmate could be anywhere in the world :) .

Thank you for reading my long text. Id love to read about your love stories too :)