In 2021 we were deep in love with eachother. We were gaming and chatting hours every day. But she ended up losing feelings for an unknown reason, and I really don't get it because we are extremely compatible, but to keep a long story short right now she only comes online once in a few months, for usually less than an hour. She often disappears while chatting without even saying bye, or telling me when she will be back.

Some possible relevant information that I do know:

• She lost feelings late in 2021 and I still don't know why. She says she prefers to be single and not have a relationship with anyone at all. She did not tell me why
• She has been suicidal and addicted to alcohol ( I dont know how much ) and she also said that I'm not the only one she stopped talking to, she also stopped talking to all of her friends, except the one who keeps visiting her house to check on her.
• She is very, very scared of getting addicted to social media, tiktok and other things on the internet and because of this she deleted all apps and stays away from them completely, she only downloads discord once in a few months to talk to me and then deletes it again
• It's very very very hard to gain information out of her. She gets annoyed when I ask "too many" questions and I feel like 90% of my questions, even though they are important, get answered with "idk". She avoids questions, says "idk" or refuses to answer them and gets annoyed. I have to say, that, I already try to not ask too many questions but only ask what is really important for me to know.

I know that there are 3 things I have to achieve which are

1. Get the answers to some big questions in my mind, but there are 2 problems: she hates questions and usually doesn't provide useful answers when I ask anything she is almost never online, and when she is, its too short to even ask every question that has been coming into my mind during the months she was gone.
2. Tell her some important things, but again if she is only online for a few minutes, after being gone for months, there is simply not enough time to tell her everything I want to tell her.
3. Make the conversations enjoyable for her so that she might get feelings for me again and be more interested in spending more time online with me. But again, theres not enough time.

I need to do all of that, but there is not enough time. After months of no communication, I have so many things to talk about, that a few minutes can't be enough for all of it. But she only comes online a few minutes before disappearing for months again.

Its stressing me, what am I supposed to do? Which of the 3 should be priority, in hope to make this relationship work again?

Its frustrating when I ndon't even know why she lost feelings, or why she can't be online more, or why she hates questions so much.