Here’s some context, I m22 have around 3 years of smoking but almost 5 years of relationship with my gf and I love her and it’s amazing BUT she’s kinda closed mind on pot due to we live in an environment were if you smoke people treat you like actual shit when it’s not, we are a very productive group in our community doing hippy things and all bc we really care.

So I’m trying to tell her that i smoke bc we are planning getting serous now that she’s out of college but I have no words to tell her bc I’m afraid to lose her. I like to consume pot in a responsable way. I mean I got a good job, I’m part of the mid low class (which in my country is almost a privilege) and got pretty much of my shit together for my age.

As far as I know she already knows that i try pot a couple of times but it’s not sure about it and definitely doesn’t know that i costume pretty often.

I know that she’s not gonna ask me to quit smoking but I don’t know if she’s gonna change her mind about moving and shits but I’m afraid of what could happen if I don’t say nothing and then she finds out by herself

Any tips?

Edit: I did it boys! So it’s last Sunday, I’m in my sister’s house having a bbq so my gf goes with the girls squad to buy some drinks and I go to the block store to get some cigs with a friend (we decide to walk) we spot their car she tough that I was about to purchase some weed from a street dealer (I don’t do that, too risk for me) so anyways she end up being mad at me bc of what she taught and I had to tell her everything, that I start smoking at our very 1st year of relationship and challenge her to tell her everything. She decide that it’s ok as long as I keep it the same as I do with alcohol. Funny thing it’s that I do more weed than alcohol but used to be different back in the days. we are cool now, she don’t understand but she know that if I’ve doing this for almost 4 years and theres nothing wrong on that as long as I keep it responsable, I get why she’s worry, we’re both kids but trying to put ourselves on our feets and having a hook on something would kill our future but I know we’re I’m standing.

I just want to thank you guys for the tips, appreciate your help.