I have 4 bridesmaids and my fiancé has 3 groomsmen and 1 groomslady. I'm just wondering how to navigate this as we get closer to our wedding date. I have included her in our bridesmaid group text because she is going to be wearing a dress and she was also invited to our lake trip getaway last September! We're coming up on me starting to buy gifts for my girls. She's not technically a bridesmaid and hasn't been involved in planning (like the bridal shower) to the extent of my bridesmaids. How should I treat this situation? My fiancé is getting gifts for his side.. should he cover her too? I also want to take them out for pedicures shortly before. Should I include her? She is a girl and I know the guys won't be doing any of that. Should I get her a robe like I'm getting for my bridesmaids? I just dont know how to navigate this situation. We are friends, but she's a lot closer to my fiancé than she is to me which is why she's on his side! I also had more friends lol. But like when I asked my girls to be bridesmaids, I put together a gift box for them all. I didnt do that for her.. because obviously she's not on my side. Do you think she'd be upset if I didn't include her in bridesmaid things? She doesn't seem very interested. Please help me! What is the etiquette here??