My wedding is in 50 days. I haven't heard from my photographer since we met him in October. I have been trying to get a hold of him since February. When we met with him he told me I could send ideas of different pictures I would want. So when I emailed him in the beginning of February, I sent him some ideas, and was just checking in to make sure everything was still good to go. He never replied. I waiting a few weeks, then tried calling his studio. No answer-left a message. A little while after that I tried texting him, heard nothing. Then Tuesday of this week, I emailed him again, and still haven't heard anything. I know he is still alive, because he has posted on his photography facebook page.

I don't know what to do at this point. We have already paid him about $1000. And honestly, I'm not sure if I want him to be my photographer any more, even if I get a hold of him. He is being so sketchy. What if he doesn't show up on my wedding day?!

But at the same time, I'm not sure I could find another photographer in this amount of time...