I feel like after all the planning I've done, I've finally reached some craziness levels you planners always talk about!

1. My MIL is really mad that we didn't sent save the dates to EVERYONE invited to the wedding, only to those who had to make travel or lodging arraignments. I gave one to my aunt (local) cuz we had an extra and sent one to our groomsman (1.5 hours away) but not to her cousin who lives 45 minutes away. We are 'hurting people's feelings'. This has now been brought up, "dropped" and brought up again. Twice.

2. My MIL and FIL are planning on paying for a hotel for our officiant to stay in for the whole weekend (he's their best friend) but think it's absolutely ridiculous to pay for 1 room for the bridesmaids just the night before the wedding so that everyone could be in the same place, same time. They said they chose to get a hotel room for the officiant because it's the least they could do since he's not charging us for marrying us. I guess i thought he was marrying us because he's like an uncle to my FH, not cuz he makes big bucks off of it. Also, they think that it's ridiculous to have me and my FH stay in different rooms the night before the wedding. (I'm not saying that's a bad idea, it's just not what we want... it's certainly not ridiculous).

3. Someone messaged me today and said "can you let me know what day the wedding is so I can come and bring my husband and son?". They aren't invited :( luckily, I have my mom to deal with that one.

AHHHHHH. WHAT IS IT ABOUT WEDDING THAT MAKE PEOPLE CRAZY!!!???