My uncle has been conversing with several women in the city where I’m getting married and wants to bring one to my wedding. He hasn’t actually met her in person. Ever. So for that reason alone I’m inclined to say no. They’ve only been chatting for a week or two. I’m not going to rearrange seating to squeeze her in at a family table, but I’m on the fence about his request for her to come after dinner. He’s an eccentric person who has dated all types of people, some of who have been problematic and some have been total gems. Part of me thinks “She’s a grown ass woman. How bad could it be?” The other part of me is thinking “She could be banana and cause a big scene. She could be a really odd duck who makes my guests uncomfortable. Why risk it?” Not sure what to do here.