Hi there, thanks for looking at my post

Physically I’m an average build around 180cm tall and about 65-67kgs. With brown hair & eyes along with some trimmed facial hair which can be adjusted to your preference.

This part is slightly different to most of the other posts I’ve read here, I’m not just looking just to stick it in and get myself off. I’ve got toys I can use for that, which seem to be increasing in number over the years… I’m looking for something ongoing as I want to actually explore things especially foreplay, get used to new experiences, try cuddling etc. and learn what you like/don’t like & so on. Ultimately I want you to enjoy this as well, not just seeing it as helping me lose it.. I may need some direction etc, but I will learn & improve.

I’m don’t have an age/racial etc. restriction here (aside from obviously 18 )

and here is an overview of what else I’m looking for:

• DDF, I’m entirely disease free. It would be a horrible first experience to catch one. Ultimately I’d like something mostly exclusive for health reasons, or at the least complete honesty and testing on your part.

• A non-smoker

• Actual communication, I’m happy to answer any and all questions you have. Along with most likely asking some random questions of my own.

• Something ongoing at random intervals… As I said above, I really don’t want a one night stand. It’ll take time to get used to the sensations, try new things etc. Even if its once every x months, or whenever suits you with regards to how often I'm sure we can come to a compromise.

• I can rarely host, due to my living arrangements. The days I get the place to myself are unknown. It does happen but can be spontaneous or rare between, other times I get entire weeks here.

But work on the assumption that generally I can’t host aside from odd occasions. In theory if it appealed, I could let you know whenever the opportunities did occur. It would however be fantastic if you had an option and I’m open to suggestions.

I will also mention I'm quite a distance SOR but on the trainline as a destination.

Please feel free to discuss any kinks etc you have, it’ll be treated as a safe non-judgemental discussion when it comes to them. Might be nice to talk about theoretical things or possibilities?

Being honest posting this is incredibly nerve wracking, especially at my age. If you wish to know anything please just ask, I’ll be a relatively open book with answers. I'd also like to chat prior to anything happening to get comfortable.

• Something I will add here as well, is honestly I'm very open to just foreplay/cuddles or trying kissing etc without going the whole way. I really do want to just explore general intimacy and discover new sensations. Even if this thing here was just a once off, actually getting to explore and feel these sensations would be a great experience.

Final note, if this post still exists in any form it means I’m still looking and haven’t found someone.