Good day! I hope are you doing well. I'm a Dutch (M)an seeking a mutually enjoyable intimate experience with someone of the (F)airer sex. I am not hung up on my virginity itself; however I sense women see me differently or disengage when they learn a hug is the most affectionate way I've touched a woman. People my age are getting married and having families; this is a future I dream of as well. I don't want my lack of experience to prevent me from meeting the woman of my dreams.

Basics:

• 30 year old.
• 6'3" / 191 cm tall.
• 185 lbs.
• Fit, clean and smells good (favorite fragrance is Le Male from Jean Paul Gaultier).
• Doesn't smoke, do drugs and only drinks socially.
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Why am I a virgin? I spent most of my life with very low self-esteem and never liked the way I looked. That caused me to feel worthless compared to my peers and I never noticed anyone being attracted to me, leading to me never asking anyone out. Since my early twenties I have worked on growing and developing myself to be a person I like to be. I am now quite confident and happy with the way I look. I even went on the first dates in 10 years in 2024.

Who am I? Nerdy is a good term to describe me by: I write code as my full-time job, love playing video games and feel compelled to read and absorb all kinds of useless information on history. Did you know ancient Egyptians used crocodile dung as a contraceptive...? Don't worry! We won't be trying that out. Besides the aforementioned hobbies, I relax by working out and profaning the dance floor with my stiff-legged attempts at salsa.

People know me as somebody who is kind, caring and curious, but at the same time also someone who is driven towards achieving what he wants in life. I'm a fan of trying new things and places; you can often see me walking or cycling around while listening to rock songs (shout out to Pink Floyd and Queen; I was truly born three decades too late). I'm also curious towards other people; you won't feel unheard as I always pay attention to the person I am talking to.

Who am I looking for? I would like to meet a kind and patient lady who would like to learn together (if they are in a similar predicament) or is willing to teach me. I don't have many preferences when it comes to appearance or background (I'm very open-minded); I am much more attracted to your personality. Someone aged between 25-35 is preferable however. I can host and I am prepared to travel (I'm overdue a city trip, haha).

If you read through this so far, thank you for your attention. If you are interested, feel free send me a chat request. It is important to me that I am comfortable with you before we meet in real life, so I'd ideally get to know you through text, voice or video chats prior. The foremost importance to me is that we both feel this was worthwhile.