I turned 30 this year and would really like to lose it and start gaining some experience. There’s no real reason for why I’m inexperienced, I was never religious or anything like that, I mostly just never really put myself out there. Growing up I was shy and sort of embarrassed to ask girls out or try to date anyone. This progressed through college and my professional career and it just never ended up happening. I guess I sort of thought eventually I’d meet someone or be in situations where I was more outgoing in person and things would happen naturally.

I’ve never seriously dated anyone or been in a long term relationship. I’ve used dating apps and had some flings and meetups from reddit before but even when things got more involved we never ended up going all the way. So I’m not totally clueless. I’d like to finally take that step though. Unfortunately I cannot host. I’m happy to travel to you or work out other arrangements.

I’m a white male, about 6’0” feet tall, medium length red hair and blue eyes, average body type, nothing too impressive, about 185lbs at the moment. I tend to think I’m pretty outgoing and approachable, I guess just with romance I’m more introverted and shy. I’m into music, movies, concerts, cinema, art, literature, travel, and all sorts of stuff. I like attending music festivals, exploring new neighborhoods/places, hiking, running.

I’m pretty open to who I meet. I’m hopefully looking for someone sweet and caring who understands my situation and wants to help me gain some experience. Maybe you enjoy teaching or this is something you’ve always wanted to do. Or you could be another inexperienced person who’s looking to gain experience. Age and looks matter to me a bit less than your personality and if it sounds like we’d get along well together. Maybe we could take things slowly, one step at a time. Totally open to age, someone older would be nice.