Firstly thank you for taking a look at my post & hopefully it catches your interest. I've tried to put a fair bit of effort into this post in order to grab you attention and prove I'm genuine. Created a similar post a couple of months ago, got a couple of messages but sadly they didn't lead to anything so thought I'd try my luck again.
Physical Appearance:
I'll start with the physical attributes as they are easy: I am a 27 year old Caucasian (white) male. I'm 6 foot 2 tall and weigh around 70 KG so as you can imagine I've got quite a slim build. My hair is strawberry blonde and I have a short ginger beard. I have blueish eyes and wear glasses. Overall I would so my appearance is fairly average. I'm British and currently live in Huddersfield (just outside of Leeds), but have moved about a few times in my life. I have also linked a photo at the bottom of this post so you can see for yourself.
Now onto my personality and interests:
I would at a top level describe myself as an introverted extrovert. So basically I can be shy when first getting to know people but once the initial introductions are over I'm much more chatty. I used to be much quieter but since university I have really been improving in confidence and am much happier where I am now. Like most people my age I enjoy hanging out with friends for food, drinks & more drinks and often visit different cities around the UK with them, typically go out with friends in Manchester or Leeds areas. I often swim & in summer play tennis (not very well) to stay fit. On quieter weekends I like to play video games (Dota 2 / Lost Ark ect) and binge Netflix shows. I work as a finance analyst in the manufacturing industry and like my job but it does keep me busy during the week.
Why am I posting here?:
I did post a little while back as well and although I got a couple of messages unfortunately it didn't lead onto anything. But that did at least raise my hopes that people do read these. I'm posting here because when I was younger 18 to 21 I wasn't very confident and never really got that close with any women. University changed a lot for me and certainly came out a better person but one thing I decided to put off was trying to have sexual encounters. My concern for the last year now has been that I see myself at an age where most people have experience and I don't. This makes me a bit self conscious when chatting on tinder and going one dates as I fear if it leads anywhere I'm going to embarrass myself at some point by being clueless. So I'm posting here not because I want to "just lose it" but instead want to get a bit of experience and an idea of what I'm doing.
What am I looking for?:
Of course I've got my ideal scenario / situation I'm looking for but I'm also realistic everyone is on here for their own agendas and we will have to find a mutual middle ground that meets both our desires. My ideal situation is someone on local on the same situation as myself who has no / limited experience (just because I think that makes it less awkward in my head I guess). Would like to have some chemistry whilst chatting and if all works out gain some experience together from a meet or a few meets (if all goes well) in order to build on the "first time" experiences. My perfect situation is someone who wants to meet more than once as that will grant more experience and time to chat about how it went ect. That's my ideal but even if that isn't exactly what you have in mind still get in touch and let's chat. I'm not fixed on it. If you are someone who has experience but is willing to help someone learn I'm also not against that either but probably will want to make sure I understand your reasoning behind offering a helping hand. Only thing I would say I'm not interested in is any couples (sorry).
I cannot host where I live but I'm more than happy to book a hotel somewhere between us or can also travel since I drive and meet you somewhere. I think that covers all the basics, if you want to know more drop me a message and I'll be more than happy to chat from there.
Finally as promised a picture of myself so you can at least decide if you like the look of me or not.
https://imgur.com/a/qWnk7Aq
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