I am a bigger girl and I have always been self conscious. In school sometimes I’d think about guys but none really ever approached me and I never ended up dating anyone all through middle school and into high school until I graduated.
I always just kinda kept to myself. I have bad social anxiety with people in general and especially with a guy that I like.
Now that I am out of school I am around less and less people and I am worried I am never going to meet anyone at this rate. I don’t want to end up being alone and a virgin forever. I feel like if I get the first time out of the way I will become more confident and outgoing with guys. Yes I also need to do things to help become more attractive and confident around guys too which I’m working on.
I am looking for a guy who is in a similar situation as me and would like to just get the first time over with. I figure if we are both in similar situations and both nervous and awkward it will make the first time easier for both of us.
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