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Hey Reddit,
I wanted to open up about something thatās been on my mind lately. Iām 25 years old and still a virgin. I know that might not be super unusual, but itās something Iāve put a lot of thought into, and I feel like Iām ready to share this part of myself with the right person.
For me, being a virgin isnāt about following a specific moral or religious guideline. Iāve just always believed that I wanted my first time to be meaningful. Itās not about finding āthe oneā or waiting for marriage, but Iāve always wanted to have a deep connection with someone before taking that step. I want to share that experience with someone I truly care about, and who cares about me.
Itās not that I havenāt had opportunities; I just havenāt felt the right emotional connection yet. And honestly, I think thatās okay. Iām not in any rush, but as I get older, I realize I do want to experience that intimacy and take that step forward.
I know this can be a bit awkward to talk about, but Iām hoping there are others out there who feel the same way or have been in a similar situation. How did you handle it when you were ready to lose your virginity? Did you wait for someone special, or did you feel like it just needed to happen when the time was right?
Iām not looking to jump into something just to say Iāve done it. I really value emotional and intellectual connection, and I believe that makes the physical side of things so much more meaningful. If anyone has advice, stories to share, or even just words of encouragement, Iād really appreciate hearing them.
I am 5'2, 185lbs.
Thanks for reading. Looking forward to hearing from others who might relate to this!
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