Hi all. I’m 23F, height is 5’2 and last time I checked I’m about 160 lbs. Curvy ish build w/ medium sized boobs but I’m kinda out of shape rn. Brown/pink hair and brown eyes. I live in New Mexico. I realize there’s a slim chance of other New Mexicans on here, so I’m opening this up to Phoenix too. I used to live there and I’ll be going back a few times this year.

Ok so, I’m completely inexperienced, I have never even kissed anyone. But I’m getting tired of being so inexperienced (and horny lol). I don’t know how much longer it might take for my first times to happen and honestly, I kind of just want to do it now. For a long time I didn’t want to do it with a stranger, I wanted to wait for the right person. But as virginity becomes more of a social construct to me, I’m trying to see losing virginity as gaining an experience, not losing something.

Anyways, I do have some requirements. This is for both our safety, and also so I can make this the best experience possible. 1. You need to get tested. I will too if you want. You can’t always trust people from the internet. 2. You need to be non judgmental towards appearances. I’m not the prettiest in the bunch imo lol. 3. You need to be able to take things slow. I’ve previously had issues with my pelvic floor (using toys). I’m not completely sure if it’s just my nerves or it’s medical, so I really don’t want to jump straight into sex. I need to get comfortable with intimacy first, in hopes that it will calm my anxiety and not make penetration feel like shit. I would like to be able to actually enjoy sex. 4. If you’re down to take things slow, I would really like to just do oral only for a little bit, especially so I can practice (and because again, horny lol). Plus some sfw intimacy would be nice too.

Idk if I’ll find what I’m looking for with these requirements, but oh well. Should also mention I am very kink friendly and kinky myself.

Still not 100% sure this is the route I want to take so I may not keep this post up. Feel free to dm me and we’ll see what happens :)