I’m a 25 year old guy 5’8 about 200 pounds and also obviously a virgin. For a very long time I had neither the time or inclination to pursue any kind of relationship because of my own personal problems. While I wouldn’t say I have no problems now I would say I’ve finally reached a point where I think I’m ready to try and put myself out there. The biggest problem for me at the moment is when I imagine any sort of relationship going forward I hit the inevitable roadblock of intimacy. When I first started thinking about dating it truly hit me that I have zero experience in physical intimacy. That kind of terrifies me and honestly is the biggest thing holding me back from trying to pursue some kind of relationship.

I would prefer a more long term arrangement with someone rather than a single meeting, but I realize I can’t really afford to be choosy here. I also can’t drive myself and live in an area where public transport is virtually non existent so pre planning is going to be a must for me. Spontaneous meetups aren’t really possible for me unless the other individual in question wants to drive to my home and pick me up. Largely I’m looking for someone to show me the ropes of physical intimacy and that means all the basics. Oral, giving and receiving though if I’m being honest I’m more interested in the giving. Foreplay is something I very much would like to be taught. And if it’s something you’re comfortable with I would greatly appreciate any advice on the social end of things as well, how to initiate, what signs should I be looking for, non creepy ways to express my interest etc.

If you’re interested in helping me with any of these things or even just have suggestions please feel free to reach out. I am straight though so please if you have a penis don’t message me.