Hello all, I’m a 26 year old asian male, ~5’7” and 180ish pounds, semi-athletic build. I do have a relatively recent gym pic of my body on my profile if you’d like to see.

I have been trying different subs and found this one so i figured I’d try my luck! I want to lose my virginity in the hopes of feeling a bit more comfortable with intimacy, feeling a little bit more confident in myself, and also as a learning experience. So that being said, there are several things that I am looking for, some of which I have realized after making these kinds of posts and receiving messages on it. I don’t mean to come off as demanding, i just figure it would be easier for the both of us if you know what you are getting into and what i am going to ask for.

I am looking for someone preferably closer to my age though that is not a hard requirement. I am verified in other communities and I would be willing to take send additional pictures once we have communicated enough but I am also going to ask that you send pictures/verification as well. I’ve gotten tired of talking to faceless burner profiles and id like to know who id at least potentially be meeting. It doesn’t have to include your face but at least your body.

I am ok with both virgins and non-virgins, though id say i prefer non because i would like somebody that can show me the ropes. I want someone that is confident, knows how to guide me and can navigate the bedroom with ease. Again, not a hard rule. If you are a virgin and you want to explore with one, i would be okay with that as well.

I cannot host so either you must host or we need enough time to talk/meet and i need to feel confident that we have chemistry before i even consider renting a room. I am a grad student so even the cheaper hotels are still significant money for me.

Lastly, I don’t want this to be a “quickie” or something. It can be a one time thing, or even a consistent FWB, but i need someone that is actually willing to put in the time and effort for this first time. Maybe even go more than one round, or do some after care, because again, this is a learning experience for me.

Id even be open to exploring kinks (potentially) you have if they are within my comfort zone. Sorry that was so much to read, but if you’ve made it this far and you’re in my area, send me a message. I’m looking forward to it :)