It's Christmas Eve and not expecting people to drop what they're doing for a Christmas miracle tomorrow but hoping to find someone during the next 2 weeks or so since I have time off until the second week of the new year. Posted this in another subreddit that I am verified in and figured I would post here also for the best chance of finding someone.

Thank you to all those that messaged during my previous posts. If I did not respond to your message, it means you did not reply with what was asked or my inbox was flooded and I thought I found someone that was going to follow through and stopped checking. Feel free to reach out again if that is the case and, regardless, hope everyone has a Merry Christmas or whatever you celebrate!

Original Post:

This is probably the most awkward post I have ever made and not sure how to start but here goes.

I spent most of my early years working multiple jobs and just never thought about losing my virginity much. Part of this is because I've always been busy with work and my career and part of it is because I've always been told I am attractive throughout the years and just thought it would happen by now.

While I still look young and have been on dates before, I'm in my 30's now and not getting any younger so decided to post instead of continuing to leave it to fate.

Some of my hobbies include exercising, anime, gaming, and kpop. You do not have to share the same hobbies and just thought I would throw that out there in case you wanted to know more about me.

For what I'm looking for, not to be too picky but, I want my first time to be with someone I find physically attractive also. My definition of attractive is pretty conventional so, if you were ever told you could be a model or you get too much unwanted attention on a regular basis and you think we would be a good match, feel free to send me a message.

Hoping to change my status this year with someone that is understanding and I am open to females without experience also. We can figure it out together.

Anyway, hope everyone is finding what they are looking for and hope to talk soon!

Edit: Like I mentioned, I am verified on another subreddit and will ask that you verify eventually also before we meet up. This could be a simple DM with you holding your username on a sheet of paper without showing your face. If you're fake, please save us both time.

I am in no rush and if this post is still up, I am still looking. Please message with some basics about yourself such as age, ethnicity, and if you are local to Philly or not for a reply. I drive and being local is not a requirement but please remember to include the basics mentioned to save some time. Thanks!