So here it goes: - British/White Caucasian - 5ft 10 (65kg) - Slim/lean build (not a skeleton, but not an athlete either) - Geen eyes - Short light brown hair - Similar in looks to Gavin Degraw (shaved)? (according to the internet)

I've got my own house, a strong career, a car and a fair amount of hobbies and activities I like to do (DIY house renovation, photography, cooking, swimming and anything to do with cars).

I'm NOT just looking to get my dick wet! I'm looking for someone who is in the same position or is understanding of it, so that I can learn and build my confidence level. I would feel much more comfortable going on a few low key dates, just to get to know each other a bit, see if there's a connection first. I'm not expecting a 20 something Instagram model to just pop up in any way, and to be fair, age and looks are nothing when compared to the connection between 2 people.

Now my background that has led me here:

As I approach the age of 30, I've been reflecting an awful lot on how I have ended up in the position of not having any experience of intimacy with women. I've never been the outgoing type, grew up in a small village miles away from any form of bars/clubs. Didn't do university either, which kind of thrusts you into a place where everyone is of similar age and looking to experience sex in any/all forms.

I've had some relationship and family stuff go on that has deeply affected me more than I realised. Whilst I've recognised and accepted it now, I find myself with terrible anxiety, fear and regret that I may never experience intimacy and sex.

I've tried dating apps, but in 2023, they are either filled with fake accounts redirecting you to other places, or people looking to settle down, get married and have some kids. How can someone like me commit to that, when the only intimate moment I've shared was a kiss before getting on the school bus.

I've been saying to myself that it will happen naturally and the right person will just come along. But I'm now nearly 30 and the fact that I am having to post on here makes me a little upset, but it's nice to know that I'm not alone.

If by some miracle, you want to message me after reading this, then I'd be very appreciative. I am very open about my situation and talking about the intimate details. You kind of have to be in a situation like this.

Thank for reading in any case.