Hey, I will keep this post short.

My name is Julian, I am 29 years old and from Germany. I'm 1,78m tall and weigh 100kg (or 5'10" and 220lbs for imperial users). I am working on my weight by going to the gym. I have brown hair, blue eyes, beard and glasses. Be warned, I have a smaller penis with phimosis (10cm/4")

I have been single and a virgin my whole life and now want to change that. I would prefer an actual bond over a short fling so I will include some things about me here. I love to read, I would call myself a nerd when it comes to games and manga. I am doing my master's in chemistry. I am kind most of the time but also blunt and sarcastic. I'm a shy introvert in real life but can be confident and kinky online. I will get a vasectomy one day so I will not have or want kids, ever. I don't hate them but I just don't want them. Last thing: I am friendly to many kinks and would want to try many things.

Now to what I search for: Preferably someone confident in calling the shots since I can be quite anxious and overthink many things. But if this would also be your first time, that is also ok. We can explore things together, then. You should also be either near me or not too far away (so Germany and neighbouring countries prefered). Exception here would be that you are able to travel to where I am. Other than that I have no preferences. You can be smaller or taller, lighter or heavier, older or younger (but please 18 ) than me. Ethnicity or skin colour don't matter to me.

If some of that resonates with you or you just want to help me, write me on here. I can send a picture in chat (and expect one in return). We can also switch to Discord if you prefer that (since Reddit's chat is a bit wanky from time to time). If a man reads this and he knows a woman that would be interested (or just wants to talk about experiences), feel free to reach out as well. And please, don't write me if you want to scam me or sell me sex. I don't want that.