Hey,
About me:
I'm a 26 year old white male currently living in Huddersfield (Between Leeds & Manchester). In terms of appearance I'm 6 foot 2 tall with a slim build, strawberry blonde hair and blue eyes and overall I would say I'm average looking. I would say as a person I'm an extroverted introvert (if that can even be a thing) and very easy going and can get along with almost anyone once we get chatting. I spend a lot of my time working but on weekends my hobbies include, computer games, bouldering, seeing friends & travelling. I would say overall I'm an open and down to earth person with a sarcastic style of humour.
Why I'm Posting here:
At 26 I've become very self conscious about the fact that I still have no experience and started feeling like it is causing me to hold myself back, which is something I would like to change. Before and during University I was quite shy and quiet and never seeked or moved on any opportunities in this area. Then towards the end of uni and after I grew significantly in confidence in a lot of social situations and have become a person I much prefer nowadays. However the one area I still feel very uncomfortable would be in a bedroom and I almost avoid situations that could lead to that. This is driven by the fact I am embarrassed to have no experience and don't want to make a fool of myself infront of someone else who isn't in the same boat.
What am I looking for:
I'm aware everyone has their own circumstances, I'll talk about what my ideal would be but if someone is interested but has a different agenda I'm sure we can find mutual ground. My ideal would be having a chat and getting to know someone who I have some basic chemistry with. I feel like a little chemistry goes a long way in making something like this much more open, constructive and beneficial all together. As I'm really wanting to gain experience and confidence in sexual situations someone who's interested in also possibly meeting more than once would be great. I want to learn/improve/discuss and gain confidence from each other and not just lose the virgin tag. I can't host but am very happy to organise a hotel or also travel to yourself if you can host. I have a car so travelling is not an issue for myself. I work during the week so the best care would be someone who is also free on weekends.
Closing thoughts:
Likelihood of actually hearing from a genuine person feels quite slim but let's see. Starting a message I'm sure will be a little off-putting but send me anything and I'll make sure to reply. I'm happy to share a picture in private messages and see where the conversation goes. Hopefully there is something looking for something similar out there who wants to get in touch!
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