**Reposting as put up originally just before sub went dark**
Hi There,
Not really sure how to start this but here goes.
About Me:
I'm a 26 year old white male currently living in Huddersfield (West Yorkshire). In terms of appearance I'm 6 foot 2 tall with a slim build, strawberry blonde hair and blue eyes and overall I would say I'm average looking. I would say as a person I'm an extroverted introvert (if that can even be a thing) and very easy going and can get along with almost anyone once we get chatting. I spend a lot of my time working but on weekends my hobbies include, computer games, bouldering, seeing friends & travelling. I would say overall I'm an open and down to earth person with a sarcastic style of humour.
Why I'm Posting here:
At 26 I've become very self conscious about the fact that I still have no experience and started feeling like it is causing me to hold myself back, which is something I would like to change. Before and during University I was quite shy and quiet and never seeked or moved on any opportunities in this area. Then towards the end of uni and after I grew significantly in confidence in a lot of social situations and have become a person I much prefer nowadays. However the one area I still feel very uncomfortable would be in a bedroom and I almost avoid situations that could lead to that. This is purely driven by the fact I am embarrassed to have no experience and don't want to make a fool of myself infront of someone else who isn't in the same boat. I don't have high expectations from a post on Reddit but thought I may as well give it a go just incase. (p.s. also happy to share a photo once we get chatting)
What I'm looking for:
Ideally I'm looking for someone in a similar situation but at the same time am open to anyone that is interested in helping. At the core I don't really just want to lose the "virginity" tag, ideally I am looking for someone to gain a little experience with and improve my confidence in a setting where we are both aware of each others situations. So that in future I don't feel like I'll make a fool of myself infront of someone who has more experience. The perfect scenario for me would be chatting with someone for a bit and maybe having a few meets to gain experience from each other. I am also well aware everyone will be after their own situations from here and very open to trying to find a mutual middle ground to fulfil both. In terms of age/looks/experience ect I don't have any needs and open to all. The only thing I am not interested in is any couples, I have seen some posting on here offering support but that is one of the scenarios I am not after sorry.
I am unable to host where I live due to it being shared however I have a car and can easily travel if you can host as well as also happy paying for a hotel for us.
Closing comments:
Thanks to anyone that has taken the time to read this far and if you are interested don't hesitate to get in touch and given it's a weird topic if you have no idea how to start the message just tell me you favourite movie and we can go from there!
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