I've heard that it's the norm that guys tend to involuntarily cum really quickly when we are new to having sex. I'm guessing that's because the sensation is just so new and overwhelming that it will be harder to hold back than I'm expecting? But I just can't really picture it. I mean I think I have a good idea of what being in a girl will feel like but I'm not entirely sure either. I also don't really know what rhythm.or order to really approach it in and when to kiss or make out of whatever. But it just seems hard to believe it would be thaaat hard to control it, or am I missing something? I honestly don't like the idea of not being able to have full control over a situation but maybe that's just my personality and have a hard time believing I wouldnt be able to control something like that through a bit of willpwer?

It does make me nervous though and fearful about being judged if it does happen faster than I can control. I really hate the idea that experienced guys have some magical power over sex that the rest of us don't know about and that girls like what they can offer better. Is it even that much better for the girl? Then again I guess they have figured out how to get sex, so they do have that over us.

Anyway, why is it such a stereotype that inexperienced guys don't last long? How long can I reasonably expect to be able to last my first time? Like what is a reasonable expectation to have and to set with a partner? Is it possible I could be the exception to the stereotype of virgin guys not being able to control it? It is possible a girl wouldnt be able to tell the difference between me and a more experienced guy?