Hello this is my first post here and I am only doing so since this has been on my mind recently. I am a 22 year old man who is a senior in college. I am a virgin since I have been single for almost ten years now and this thought just puts me down. I am just very shy when it comes to girls that I am interested in and I am also an introvert. I have been told that it doesn't matter and that inexperience is alright but these thoughts come to my head from time to time and just put me down a little. I am on okcupid in which noting really has happened yet, hell I am nervous to even send a message to a girl. But I am trying to put myself out there more and find a girlfriend since I want more than anything to have someone to love and for someone to love me. If sex happens then it would be great.

I know this is a long post and I hope that this is the place to post this on but if anybody reads this then I hope they get where I am coming from. I know that I need more confidence its just a little hard for me to get it. But despite that my desire to change is very strong and I hope that my next post here will be a post that lists how I found somebody. Until then I wish you all well and I would like to thank you for whoever reads this.