I figured before my trip I would try to meet some people from online to try to lose my virginity just so see if I could do it without having to pay for it. But its literally just ghosts, scammers, or only fans girls. I've tried the subreddit for the city closest to me, and I've tried the virginity exchange subreddit, but no luck unfortunately (and with the virginity exchange you can only post once a month, which is brutal if you aren't getting much attention). Online dating doesn't work for me since I'm average looking at best, and I live in a small town. I'll be going back to school soon, but the longer I wait the less time I have. I'm 29 years old and I've never experienced any form of intimacy. Not like going back to school will even guarantee that I meet a partner anyway. Sucks to suck though I guess.