Like, imagine seeing someone for years and then getting married. Finally you are ready for an awesome sex life, only for it to suck. Imagine the person you marry isn't sexually compatible with you(very different libidos, is way too boring to have sex with, only does what they want and never does what you want, etc). Or even worse, immediately just losing interest in having sex with you and putting you in a dead bedroom situation. I would feel worse off that way. I personally don't plan on getting married until alimony payments are destroyed. I think having sex early in a relationship(around date 3 or within 2 months of seeing each other) is important and that gauging sexual compatibility is a must. I think having someone be sexually attracted to you is the most important part in a relationship, which is why you should always be improving your looks since that builds sexual attraction. No amount of money or status will build legit sexual attraction, only gold diggers.

I don't get this whole "waiting til marriage" thing as it's something I frequently see posted here. Logically it doesn't make sense for a healthy sexually relationship. If anything, it's holding you back and setting you up for failure.

Me personally, I just want to have sex with someone who actually wants to have sex with me, I don't care if it's a relationship or a hookup, I don't care if she's a virgin or not, as long as it feels real and isn't transactional.